Sunday, August 3, 2008

Parker and I are not speaking...


The smallest problems can lead to the biggest arguments.

Saturday, Parker spent the day with his friends and I spent the day with my friends. When we finally spent some time together, we just did not seem to rub each other the right way.

The argument was my fault. I started it. I flew off the handle about the door being closed to the cat’s room (I know, I know… my cat has his own room), and he flew off right back. The argument ended with him telling me to find my own damn ride to the airport.

And I did.

We have not spoken since Saturday night.

I am out of town for a week.

18 comments:

Dusty Boot said...

oh my. Give him a call, perhaps? Let him know at least you arrive safely (wherever you are at the moment).

Corey Keith said...

I am in Dallas. I did let him know but he did not answer... The little bastard...

Dusty Boot said...

And if it'll make you feel better... every room in my house is the cats' room. :) There are cat doors all over, so we don't have to worry if the door is closed or not. (I have 2 cats btw).

BPS 2.0 said...

Sometimes you need to be apart to realize that you can't be without each other. Let him pout while you handle business for the week. He knows your number. You already tried to put an olive branch out to him.

4GOTTEN1 said...

Apologize and forget it ever happend. The one thing I do know about relationships is never dwell on the small things that will not matter tommorow or even a week from now. Go home love that man and reserve the arguing for the big stuff.

Q said...

Be mad at each other while you are away, when you get back the make-up sex will be the bomb!

Turn me up a lil said...

cats are the source of everything bad on the Earth...jk. Hope things resolve soon

AcousticSoul said...

I would make another attempt. When you last phoned, did you leave a message? After this last attempt the balls in his court. Try not to let the situation engulf you too much as all couples have fight/arugments not matter the subject matter. Things will be ok.

autonomous said...

So sorry to hear this.
things happen, if you know you were initially in the wrong try him once more. absence does make the heart grow fonder.

Who knows, you might get that call/text dead in the middle of the night saying "I miss you" or something to that effect.

It'll all work out im sure.

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C. Baptiste-Williams said...

if you know you are fighting over something stupid why not just end it.

Chet said...

No you didn't! Have you gone mad? Check this out man, call that brotha and immediately apologize. Never ever go to bed angry or leave town angry. Clear that situation up right now.

Why allow the small things to get to you? Chile there will be plenty of time for disagreements and making up (which can be fun), but right now do not leave the man wondering and you can stop worrying too, call him and apologize. Be a man about it!

D-Place said...

I have a different question. Why would you be mad about him leaving the cat's door open and yell at him. What else is going on with yall? Cuz it's not the cat door that's the problem.

I had such high hopes for yall..don't disappoint me.

deonte' k said...

Y'all need to make up, and call it a day buddy! ;)

fuzzy said...

something is in the water, I'm convinced! what the hell its like the 5th person that is goin through somethin wit they partner/significant other... what is up wit that?

Darius T. Williams said...

Sorry to hear that...you should've made the boy the smothered chicken!

BronzeBuckaroo said...

Just give it little time. Pretty soon after you return from Dallas, things will go back to a good standing between you two.

yet another black guy said...

sounds like both of ya'll were in the wrong a bit.